but what good news! What a world ... Live life Survey shock of the Society of Pediatrics on Italian teenagers, in love, alcohol and smoking
Little girls and sex: 12 years with unlimited
When asked "What do you want to be?" the first place the tissue on the second "Do not know"
ROMA — L’allarme è stato come un fascio di luce che acceca: ci sono baby squillo sulle strade. Ce l’hanno messe i loro coetanei, per pagare debiti del gioco d’azzardo. Giuliano Amato, ministro dell’Interno, ha lanciato un sasso, l’altro giorno. E adesso rischia di venire giù una montagna. Perché quella del titolare del Viminale è la punta dell’iceberg. Ma basta fermarsi un attimo e scoprire che l’infanzia più tradizionale, ormai, non riesce a superare le classi elementari. Perché: c’erano una volta i bambini. E le bambine che giocavano con le bambole. Avevano dodici-tredici anni. E la Società italiana di pediatria (la Sip) li interrogava with questions like which newspapers run in your house? Do you use computers? What event that impressed you most this year? The latest research done so is dated 2003: it was no longer any good. Certainly not to depict the reality. And now to read the latest research of the Society of pediatricians led by Pasquale Di Pietro, that of 2006, shudder. Just today, that even in Italy we celebrate the Day of the Child. Sample: 1,251 children aged 12 to 14 years. One question. One of the many of the questionnaire: "Have you ever seen a drunk friend?". Yes, said 37.4% of the sample. Not only that, the 8, 4% adds a lot. Another question: do you know someone among your friends who have smoked a joint? And this time, almost one in two (44.3%) to answer a round: Yes. Another example? Three in four children do not hesitate to confess to things they themselves define risky as drunk, in fact, drinking liquor, taking drugs, going out alone late at night, have unprotected sex. Yes: have sex often, our former children.
Educational models
Gustavo Pietropolli Charmet developmental psychiatrist, has no doubts: "The anticipation of the stages of development is due to educational models. How to tell? Were mom and dad who wanted to happen, they are given be done to diversify the cultural model that they had received. Have accelerated the social skills of their children. They have taken away their guilt, the sense of fear. Just try to believe. Just enter seventh grade in any of Italy and understand that it is impossible to make these kids feel guilty or somehow put them in fear. " He succeeds so well in the second State average of Gela, Sicily? "The boys are very determined, it is true," Ela Aliosta guarantees, dean of the college to retirement. I am forty years that Mrs. Aliosta has to do with the kids of the medium. He says now: "I am changed. A lot. Physically, first of all, once the females arrive girls in middle school. Today, women already look like when they come in first. Especially for how to dress, makeup, combing their hair. With the complicity of their parents, of course. "
"I'm the vellum"
Or the Cubist, the showgirl, dancer. In the more traditional questions: "What do you want to be?" The girls interviewed by the Society of pediatricians have in fact put in the first place: I want to do "celebrity." And until there is not a sensational discovery. It is, however, that, taken this perspective, the gap remains: the second preferences of girls is, in fact, a disarming: "I do not I know. " "I am twelve years now I have the Cubist call me princess" is the title of the book of Marida Pijola Lombardo, a journalist-mother who is not by chance has thrown confusion among mums and dads. He uncovered the world of afternoon clubs, leaving parents bewildered swarms of girls in front of phrases like: "If you're a woman, the Cubist. No longer a little girl. With customers of the disco intrigues only if you like. And you can get paid ...». It is not fantasy. It's something that we came from a few years, probably imported from the United States once again. It was the 2003 "Thirteen, 13 years," the film-shock set in Los Angeles starring two girls (thirteen, in fact) who live vite sempre più pericolose tra sesso promiscuo, droga, fumo, alcol, piccoli furti, accenni di lesbismo. «Sono vent'anni che insegno nella scuola media di Centocelle, a Roma», dice Margherita D'Onofri, insegnante di scienze. E spiega: «Soltanto negli ultimi anni, però, ho visto cambiare gli atteggiamenti durante i campi scuola, ovvero quelle gite che consentono ai ragazzi di dormire fuori dalla propria città. Adesso anche nelle prime classi stanno svegli tutta la notte e si mescolano dentro le stanze. Fino a poco tempo fa non succedeva».
fonte corriere.it
